So, I am back in my hometown for a few days getting my car fixed and visiting family. After being away fro so long, I couldn’t wait to get home, see old friends, chat with my mother, just relax a little bit. The problem? My family still does not get this whole “I’m happy being fat thing”. Now you would think that me telling them to drop it would be enough, but no, it comes up at every meal. “You were so pretty when you were thinner.” “You are gonna die at that weight” and my step father is the worst! “You know being fat is a product of laziness” “What do you do eat a whole tub of ice cream” These are the things I face when I go home. I know that they are trying to guilt me, or scare me into losing weight, and a few years ago they may have succeeded. Now, I know the facts, I know that I am a healthy happy vegetarian, who loves yoga, and long walks, and is yes indeed fat.
So, I have made it my goal to fill them in on some of the facts! Whether they want to hear the facts or not at this point is irrelevant, I am on a mission lol! My mission of the day? Print off some news articles and medical journals to help educate my family about the real issue of size, since my wod doesn’t seem to be cutting it. Wish me luck!
Throughout time curvy luscious bodies have been worshiped and adored for their beautiful lines. For many years the fashion industry took notice and designed beautiful outfits for women with a more abundant body type. But in the height of the skinny revolution many plus size women find themselves in a fashion draught searching through piles and piles of tweety bird shirts and lycra pants for one cute piece to add to their wardrobe. So what’s a plus size girl to do?
There are stores like Lane Bryant and Torrid that are catering to women of size. They offer many fashionable options, but for women living on a budget (which in this economy is everyone) these stores may be a little bit too pricey. Although TIP check out the clearance racks. Many ‘a’ time I have scored an adorable outfit for under ten bucks.
There are also many stores and botiques only that cater the fat and fabulous crowd, such as http://www.alight.com, http://www.kiyonna.com/, http://www.igigi.com/, http://www.sizeappeal.com/, and many more. Personally, I have trouble buying clothing that I don’t get to try on, but these are always options for the gal who can’t locate a plus-size botique near her.
So, what can we do to change this problem. I did something personally drastic for myself as an accessory lover. About a year ago, I started refusing to shop for anything in a store that doesn’t carry my size. Goodbye Chartlotte Ruse! I loved thee well. While sometimes its hard to pass things in the window, I feel better knowing that I dont’ support their sizist chain, and I suggest everyone start doing the same. We fatties spend money the same as skinny folk and if we pull out our funding of chains that won’t cater to us, especially in this economy they will feel the hurt. So, if you are looking for an easy way to get involved in the Fat Acceptance Movement, this is a great opportunity!